Thanks to all who sent in congratulatory notes after my column earlier this month announcing my 20th anniversary of writing this weekly missive. I almost let the milestone pass without mention, but then I thought, heck, not mentioning would make me feel like a pathetic woman sitting alone in the dark with a sparkler.

So, I not only wrote about my last two decades, but also invited you to share your top takeaways and how they did (or didn’t) work out. I was heartened to hear from so many longtime readers. Here are a few choice excerpts:

“I am the last man in the world to read a weekly home improvement column, but to paraphrase a scene from Jerry Maguire, you had me at downsizing and hoarding. For most of my 70 years, I’ve collected enough “priceless” items to make the hosts of “Antiques Roadshow” want to set fire to my house. You’ve become my muse for getting rid of stuff. Oh, and as a Colorado resident, I can relate to the story of your patio collapsing outside your house.”

— Dan Rector, Monument, Colorado

“After my mom’s passing, it took me two years to go through everything stored in her double garage that never had a car in it and her home filled with things stacked on every surface in every room. Thank you for helping me and others turn what starts as an overwhelming burden into a rewarding and heartwarming project.”

— Gae Neely, Martinez

“I think of you every time I take my sheets out of the washing machine and slap them around to get the wrinkles out before they go into the dryer. However, the most significant takeaways came from the columns you’ve written about downsizing and about saying goodbye to the stuff in our lives. Our only son appears on the surface to be an unsentimental guy, but I know that when the time comes, he’s likely to be paralyzed when sorting through what remains of his parents’ lives. I have a file for ‘when the time comes,’ filled with practical documents — investment account details, the phone number of our estate attorney, etc.  But your column lives at the front of the file. The attorney will be there to guide him through the estate process. The investment advisor will help him liquidate the accounts, and you’ll be there to hold his hand through the hardest part of all.”

— Mary Weinberg, San Rafael

“The advice that stuck was so simple, but it made a big difference: ‘When decorating for the holidays, if you put a big Santa on the mantel in place of a vase, put the vase in the box you store the Santa in. When it’s time to put the holidays away, simply switch the vase for the Santa.’ I can’t tell you the number of times, I’ve put away my giant Santa collection and said, ‘Now where did I put the bowl and candlesticks that were here six weeks ago?” I once couldn’t find my red placemats for a year and a half.”

— Doreen Malin, Ross

“I am very glad I found your column, ‘How to Let Go of What We Cherish.’ It sent me a message I needed to realize. The last paragraph reminded me that the memories are in me, not in things. Due to cancer, I have given up a lot and am not able to walk or travel anymore, but I have the memories inside.”

— Anne Gracia, Hayward

“I love the columns with details on how to choose silverware or knives mixed in with columns about overall lifestyle concepts and the humor of real living. I also love getting a real newspaper, so I can rip out some columns and save them.”

— Nancy Oates, Orlando

“I have your column headlined “Your Kids Don’t Want Your Stuff” prominently displayed.”

— Judith, Mill Valley

“I was relieved to read that you weren’t retiring and that you had plenty more to say. I have zero decorating ability and laugh when I see myself in the flubs you talk about. I hope some of your sage advice has rubbed off on me.”

— Joanie Holden, Littleton, Colorado

“I really liked the column ‘Cleaning Closets Can Aid Kids in Africa, Animals in Shelters’ about how you shared several different opportunities to donate household goods — sheets, towels, old suitcases — while gaining closet and drawer space. I volunteer at a local elementary school and shared your column today with the teachers to pass on to their students’ parents. This is a win-win, no-cost project. Thanks for your columns that make our homes, communities and, indeed, our world better.”

— Laurie Akin, Osprey, Florida

“Congratulations on 20 years of writing that makes the rest of us feel normal. My wife and I are currently in the ‘do we downsize or not’ conversation, which I assume I will lose. Either way, thanks for helping us along.”

— David Swanson, Orlando