Dear Annie: I’m a 66-year-old woman, married to my second husband for nearly 17 years. Like many couples, we’ve had our share of struggles – serious enough that we were close to separating. Wanting to save our marriage, I asked him to attend counseling with me, and to his credit, he agreed. We’ve been doing much better since then and have found more happiness together.

But recently, I uncovered something that has left me completely shaken. I found out he has been hiding a large sum of money from me – millions. On top of that, I learned he placed what I thought was “our” home into a trust seven years ago. He bought the house for us before we married, but we chose it together and lived in it for three years before our wedding. I’ve always seen it as ours.