Dear Annie: My nephew will be getting married in a couple of months. They are trying to stick to a budget. On their wedding website, there is a “question-and-answer” page with details for the big day. It clearly states that although they love children, it is an adults only event. It also states that plus ones are not invited.

My youngest brother has asked my sister – the mother of the groom – if he could bring his two kids as well as a guest of one of the children. My sister said yes, which understandably upset my nephew. I also hear that a sister of the bride plans to attend, along with uninvited children, because she does not have a babysitter.