Lincoln woman being gifted a used car after health and financial hardships


In a year where too many tears have been shed, Christy Arfman spent her Thanksgiving week crying some more.

This time, they were tears of joy.



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Christy Arfman and her 3-year-old son, Kenzel Mallory, play at their home in Lincoln. Arfman, a single mother, who has battled cancer and an autoimmune disease, was gifted a used car by a local auto shop.




“This should restore everyone’s hope in humanity,” she said after learning she is being given a used car.

Arfman was the subject of a Thanks for Giving story in the Journal Star because of her battles with breast cancer, which, after two surgeries and a round of chemotherapy, would be followed up by a rare autoimmune disease — the affliction impacts 1 in 14 million, experts say — called recurrent adult onset Henoch-Schonlein Purpura.

Arfman’s story of physical and financial hardship touched Jared McPike, co-owner of inMOTION Auto Care, who offered to help the 45-year-old Lincoln woman by fixing her car.

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She dropped it off at inMOTION on the day before Thanksgiving and on Friday, McPike called her to tell her it would cost more to fix the high-mileage 2002 Honda Accord than it was worth.

“I was ready for him to tell me there was nothing he could do to help,” said Arfman, expecting just a little more Bleak Friday news.

Instead, McPike offered to give her one of inMOTION’s loaner vehicles.

“To be honest, I spent the whole weekend trying to wrap my arms around this,” she said. “For somebody to do that who doesn’t even know me to do this is just crazy. A random stranger can care enough to give me a car. 

“That’s not a small item.”

McPike said he felt compelled to help Arfman any way he could.

“She was doing everything right in her life and then suddenly she just got hit with all kinds of bad news,” McPike said. “She just seemed like a really good person that could really use a break.”

The car will be given to Arfman as soon as she determines what she wants to do with her Honda. She can sell it for a few bucks, but first she plans to offer it to one of her friends in need.

“I don’t want to pawn my problem car on someone else,” she said, determining that the old car with more the 200,000 miles on its odometer can still help one of her friends get her children to school and herself to work.

“It probably won’t make it forever, but I think it’ll make it through the winter,” Arfman said. “I’m going to ask her if he wants it before I sell it. … I can’t take this blessing and then not pass it on to someone else.”

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